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We want to participate in the biggest challenge of life, life itself

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This is the the real thing. It is incomparable. We stop thinking caring for a dog is meaningful. We start participating in the biggest challenge for us; the life of another, reliant, human. Have fun. Share fun. What a funny word fun is. Now the work merges with the fun. We are the fortunate ones. And we can start a sentence with 'and'. And we can share this challenge and this joy. Lesson 3. PK. May 2019

Relax, take it easy, be risky with your jokes

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Mothers know. That babies in their stomachs listen and learn and feel and share, even before the stork plucks them by the wrist and drops them under the cabbage patch (most people don't have cabbage patches, the Australian equivalent, is beside the garbage/recycling bins - but in that case, be sure to watch recurrently to avoid the baby being taken by the council contractors). The (presently) modern world - at least in the Western sphere, is a swirl of contradictions. But the parents are well advised to select their course and try to be as knowledgeable of alternatives as they can, but still stick to the chartered course. What does that mean in practise? Well, good you ask. In this chapter, it means Relax. The kid knows your anxiety level. It isn't good for anyone. Train yourself. Give up bad habits which encourage anxiety in yourself, and don't move anxiety from yourself to the baby piglet; Take it easy. Same thing, but it means adapt to the new burdens of child...

How to do what you can to raise ideal kids who are good to themselves, their parents and good company to others

This is my noble aim. I will deliver it in the 3rd person omniscient narration literary style. That carries with it apparent greater gravity, significance and objective authority. What is said, however, will remain mere passing notes - inherently built around personal opinion, perhaps misguided, or not thought out fully, and at times - certainly - wrong. But even a clock which is stopped is correct two times a day. First lesson Your child might be a boy or a girl. It is unlikely to be a coconut, a pig or even an elephant. In many ways raising boys and girls is the same task. Food, shelter, education, health, companionship and love. Whatever it  she is (for this lesson I will use male or female as the mood takes me), for her comfort, enjoyment, to be able to be easily liked and enjoyed, to be good company, to give and receive equally, and to encourage others to wish to enjoin, spend time, assist, and indeed love, you must ensure the child gains an outward focus. Inherently ...